To no one, he knew, not even to Willem. But he'd had years to learn how to keep his thoughts to himself; unlike his friends, he had learned not to share evidence of his oddities as a way to distinguish himself from others, although he was happy and proud that they shared theirs with him Hanya Yanagihara
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To no one, he knew, not even to Willem. He'd had years to learn how to keep his thoughts to himself; unlike his friends, he had learned not to share evidence of his oddities as a way to distinguish himself from others, although he was happy and proud that they shared theirs with him. He knew that being different didn't make him any less of a person, but it did make it harder for him to fit in socially. He believed that everyone should be able to be themselves, but not everyone could.

He was okay with being different- he'd been raised that way by his mother. But being different wasn't something he wanted for someone else.

Source: A Little Life

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